What she went through: God promised Abraham that he would become a great nation, yet Sarah remained unable to conceive. Out of deep desperation, societal pressure, and a desire to see the promise fulfilled, she resorted to a common legal custom of the time: offering her Egyptian maidservant, Hagar, to Abraham to bear a child on her behalf. This choice led to immediate domestic heartbreak, jealousy, and bitter resentment between the two women once Hagar conceived. “Now Sarai, Abram’s wife, had borne him no children...” (Genesis 16:1) and “The Lord visited Sarah as he had said... And Sarah conceived and bore Abraham a son in his old age...” (Genesis 21:1–2).
What she went through: Rachel was the beloved wife of Jacob, but she struggled with infertility. She resorted to giving her handmaid, Bilhah, to Jacob so that she could have a child through her. This led to complex family dynamics and ongoing tension between the women. “Rachel, who had borne no children...” (Genesis 30:1) and “Rachel conceived and bore Jacob a son...” (Genesis 30:23–24).
You are not defined by your struggles.
Pressure builds you, it doesn't break you.
Faith makes things possible.
You don't need to be perfect, just willing.
Your current situation is not your final destination.
Stop doubting what you can do.